Doing things with friends

Jul 27, 2025

In the pasts years I have filled my todo list with things I wanted to do but never really moved from the (over)thinking phase to actually doing. The reason are many, lack of experience, fear, perfectionism turning into inaction.

It doesn’t matter the reason but the result was just regrets. Especially when associated to knowledge and skills that lost meaning and value as the time passes by, this is especially true for sharing and creating content.

I kept staying in a trap of giving too much attention into having to make things right, despite knowing that quality have to come from quantity at first.

Starting projects with friends totally removed all these blockers, making the good parts so much more fulfilling and the boring/hard parts not to bad if the weight is shared and something that can be discussed about.

For example not I’m running a channel with a friend about AI and coding in Italian (spaghetti prompt) and while I wanted to do similar things for year I always got struck by stupid things like ā€œshould I do it in English or Italian?ā€ And many more doubts.

Doing it with a friend, makes it so much fun and fulfilling, especially of is someone you click with and there’s little to no overhead.

Finding you people, your tribe has never been so important.